Apply ‘SW, SW, SW, Next’ When Dating

At the end of the day, you want to find your ideal choice and to be someone’s ideal choice.

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“Some will, some won’t, so what, next” is a popular phrase in sales which emphasizes the art of processing rejection and keeping things moving. This strategy also works in dating.

Some Will: Only a few will like the real you and want to get to know you. Be okay with that.

Some Won’t: Some people will tell you you’re not right for them. Be okay with that.

So What: Someone’s rejection of you says little about you. Think of it this way, every interaction is an opportunity to learn something about yourself and others. Be okay with that.

NEXT!: Try not to get stuck wondering why someone did or didn’t work out. Maybe you were trying to stick a square peg in a round hole. I understand it is easier to have this attitude after one date and harder if you’ve invested time and emotions.

At the end of the day, you want to find your ideal choice and to be someone’s ideal choice. There are many reasons for being rejected – and many of the reasons don’t have anything to do with you.

Getting rejected does not feel good, but we all reject and accept things, people, ideas, places and opportunities all day long.

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